The house
Code of conduct
We are a modern social club that believes in a kinder and safer space for dating, friendships, and gatherings. These are the terms of the room. Every member signs them before joining, and they are enforced.
The standard
We hold one standard, without exception: treat every member with kindness, honesty, and respect. Everything below is that sentence, applied.
What ends a membership
Emotional abuse, harassment, or shaming of any member.
Unsolicited sexual photos, or pressure to send them.
Lying about your identity, your photos, or your intentions — catfishing in any form.
Racist, bigoted, sexist, homophobic, or anti-trans language or behavior.
Stalking, threats, or violent language.
Using the club to hunt for casual hookups. No judgment — many apps serve that well. This one doesn't.
What we expect instead
Practice kindness and courtesy in conversation, especially when the answer is no.
If you're no longer interested, say so and close the courtship kindly. Ghosting is not how members treat each other.
If you RSVP to a gathering, show up — or cancel with notice. Standing people up costs standing.
Be who your profile says you are. Your identity is verified; your character is vouched for.
Off the platform
If you take a connection off Phyrne, you take responsibility for your own safety with it. We verify identity and enforce conduct inside the club; outside it, meet in public, tell a friend, and trust your judgment.
Anyone who violates these rules loses their membership. Full stop.